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Who Cares What They Say 💭

Right now, people all over the world are anticipating the arrival of family and friends—whether it be a colleague or a long-lost friend. Many are worrying about whether or not to bring up certain conversations that may trigger an emotion for one person or the next. This is a form of emotional distress that unfortunately many people are dealing with today. The holidays have become a landmine for people’s emotionally unkept thoughts.

One would say the holiday is the best place to lay down those memories. Studies show that many people stop coming home for the holidays due to unwanted conversations—sad but true. This concept has isolated many people from family and friends. I know because I too was one of them, until I did this one thing that I will share with you.

The Simple Shift That Changed Everything ✨

One of the things I noticed was whenever it was time to meet or see someone I haven’t spoken to in a while, I would start to formulate conversations that I believed were judgmental from that person in our last conversation. Now whether the conversation was judgmental or not, it was still “up to me” on whether I decided to participate in that judgmental conversation.

See, it’s never about them—it’s always about you. Once I made this simple shift in my thought process, it was a game changer.

You Are the Main Character 🌟

Think about it: you are always the main character in your story—who cares what they think? It’s all about you. Once we realize people’s opinions are their own thoughts, we free ourselves from being captive in someone else’s opinion of us.

This way of thinking will not only free you from other people’s opinions, but you’ll also be able to enjoy those around you. Why? Because nine times out of ten, those thoughts you had about other people’s opinions were all in your head.

Keep Shining 💜

Keep shining and focus on what truly matters most, and my friend, that is you. Hugs 🤗

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Peace, Love and Blessings Lovelies Xoxo.

 

 

What’s the Big Hype About Love? 💜

As we speak, millions of people are running around making sure to get the right gift for people they really could care less about; putting up Christmas trees, involving themselves in activities they would normally say no to, setting up meal plans they know they will not keep up with. The question here is: why live a life you hate and don’t want any parts of?

The answer to this is one word—it’s called “Love.”

This one word has had men travel across the world just to rest their eyes upon that one person for just a couple of minutes; at least that’s what has been recounted in storybooks. So what is it that arises in a person that makes love so powerful?

The Science Behind Love 🧠

Studies have suggested that the brain releases endorphins when we engage in acts attached to loving something or someone. One would say it’s the act that produces love itself—while others would say otherwise due to the fact that a mother would lay down her life for her newborn child.

Is it the act, or is it the pain of not doing that act that would cause someone to sacrifice themselves for love? Either way, love is and will always be the most powerful thing.

Love: The Ultimate Driving Force ✨

After all, it was love that caused God to create the world; love was the main ingredient. It’s no wonder it’s the driving force behind it all.

The next time you find yourself embarking on a new adventure, think about what’s the motivation behind it—you’ll be surprised what you’ll find.

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Peace, Love and Blessings Lovelies Xoxo.

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