Self-Care or Your Worth It? The Mirror Doesn’t Lie

Self-Care or Your Worth It? The Mirror Doesn’t Lie

Many people are opposed to looking at themselves in the mirror when it comes to seeing their natural beauty. I believe this stems from something deeper.

The Science Behind Mirror Avoidance

Studies have shown that due to low self-esteem, many people are uncomfortable with looking at themselves in the mirror. This is usually the case for someone who has dealt with some form of trauma. I myself was very uncomfortable with staring at myself in the mirror for quite some time.

There has been a large percentage of people in the modeling industry who have suffered from low self-esteem—it’s hard to imagine, but true. It’s kind of up there with the girl who’s deemed the prettiest girl in the school but never has a date. In many cases, when you speak to this young woman, they didn’t see themselves the way others saw them.

How We View Ourselves Matters

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Red Means Money 💰 The Power of Red Nails

Red Means Money 💰 The Power of Red Nails

Studies show that the color red brings forth passion, power, and confidence—so why do many women tend to shy away from it? Although nowadays red is still seen as a passionate color, many women may not know the theory behind red.

The Psychology Behind Red

It’s suggested that whenever a woman wears red, she is giving off a signal of passion, power, and homemaker energy. One reason being: most memories of red nail polish are associated with childhood memories of a boy’s mom or teacher, as red was the go-to back in the day—hence one of the reasons why red is a classic color.

My Red Nail Experiment

Unbeknownst to me, being aware of this particular theory recently, I went to my nail appointment. The color red has been my staple for some time now—only this time I got acrylic nails 💅🏽. If you know anything about acrylic nails, they’re very attractive. Guess what color I got? Yep, you guessed it—red!

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Nervous System Reboot: Getting Back on Track in 2026

Nervous System Reboot: Getting Back on Track in 2026

As the year progresses, most New Year’s resolutions tend to sway to the wayside. This can leave you feeling depressed or even anxious. Approximately 80% of New Year’s resolutions are abandoned by mid-February. Why is that?

I believe this happens because systems are not put in place. As the saying goes, “Not preparing is preparing to fail.” With everything asking for your attention, it’s no wonder you barely have time for a cup of coffee, never alone a sensible meal

Here are some things I believe will help put you back on track, allowing you to

get back into that lovely dress you bought that wasn’t on

sale—purchased with the belief you’d be shedding those

stubborn menopause pounds:

1. Set a Time for Your Last Meal of the Day

This will eliminate those late-night snacks before bedtime. When you establish a clear boundary around eating times, your body begins to regulate itself more naturally. Your nervous system learns when to expect nourishment and when to rest.

2. Brush Your Teeth After Dinner

This has been a game changer for me! Not wanting to deal with the hassle of flossing and brushing again helps keep me from those late-night snacks. It’s a simple psychological trick that signals to your brain that eating time is over for the day.

3. Keep Your Workout Clothes Close

Place them right next to your bed—yes, even on your nightstand if needed! The less you have to think about in the morning, the better. Having your gym attire close by makes getting ready much easier, allowing less resistance when it comes to keeping up with your workout routine.

The Confidence Connection

I believe when we make our routines a priority, we also acquire self-confidence. Each small win builds momentum. Every time you follow through on a commitment to yourself, you’re sending a powerful message to your nervous system: “I am reliable. I keep my promises to myself.”

Your nervous system craves consistency and predictability. When you establish these simple routines, you’re not just working toward physical goals—you’re creating a foundation of trust with yourself that ripples into every area of your life.

Keep going. You got this.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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Love It or Live It – You’re Here to Stay

Love It or Live It – You’re Here to Stay

After the holidays, most people are focused on their new year resolutions: going to the gym, eating healthier, or starting a business. All good things! Unfortunately, self-care usually sits at the bottom of their list.

Studies show that the inability to practice self-care stems from a lack of emotional awareness. I myself thought that I was doing a great job of practicing self-care—every two weeks I was getting my nails done, keeping up with hair appointments. It wasn’t until I had my own episode of burnout that I realized I wasn’t paying attention to my mental wellbeing, not to mention my nervous system was out of control. My ability to make decisions was always at a high level of stress.

Needless to say, I couldn’t go on like this.

The Wake-Up Call

After deep reflection, time off, and therapy, I realized I wasn’t spending time with me. The one person who needed me the most was myself. On the outside, everything was great—but what about the inside? The places where only you are aware of?

Self-care is more than a mani-pedi appointment.

Real Self-Care: Going Deeper

Setting time to reflect on some of the things that are truly important in your life is not only eye-opening but also soul-healing. It’s about:

  • Checking in with your emotional state regularly
  • Creating space for quiet reflection and stillness
  • Acknowledging when your nervous system needs regulation
  • Making decisions from a place of peace, not stress
  • Honoring the internal work, not just the external maintenance

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You’ve Always Had What It Takes ✨

You’ve Always Had What It Takes

 

What if I told you that you’ve always had what it takes to make your dreams come true?

When World War Two hit, women found themselves in a state of frantic uncertainty—not only because their loved ones were off to war, but because many were truly alone for the first time in their lives. With no men around to protect or provide in the way they were accustomed to, and with all resources redirected to the war effort, women were left with scraps of food and barely enough materials to get by.

But here’s what happened: women didn’t crumble. They rolled up their sleeves and got to work. They came together, created plans, kept households running, and even made supplies to send to soldiers—keeping them warm and fed on the front lines.

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Natural Beauty – create your skin clear

Natural Beauty – create your skin clear

Natural skin care has always been at the top of my list – It’s not only healthier  

for the skin – you also get to create your on special mix that will work well for

your skin type ; not to mention it could save you more money in the long run.

In this weeks episode on the podcast @ Elizabeth Magical Garden  we travel

back in time – were women of color ” black women” had to be “resourceful

when it came to preserving there hair and skin.

 

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Gray hair – can you bring “sexy “ back?

Gray hair – can you bring “sexy “ back?

Millions of people will eventually  have  to choose  on weather or not – to color

there hair.  If your anything like me it’s  a no brainier ; of course your going to cover those gray’s – right?

to be honest;  I never thought about my grays

how could I – the women in my family – never

allowed nothing  more then there gray roots to show up lol

Over the last few years women stared rocking there gray hair;  growing out

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Say yes to “the face” – the daunting stigma of aging

Say yes to “the face” – the daunting stigma of aging
Women all across the world are confronted  –  with the daunting stigma aging possesses –

Research indicates that women typically begin to express concerns about

aging in their late 20s to early 30s. This is often triggered by the

appearance of first visible signs of aging such as fine lines or changes in skin texture.

In the last  5 years alone shows how over the course of time – the perspective

of society has changed: I listed a few down below

Dated from (2020-2025) show significant shifts in how women perspective

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Overcoming Procrastination Habits

Overcoming Procrastination Habits

I don’t know about you but – Procrastination has always

been that ones thing that had me in its clutches – As a child

I’ve been told over and over again  “why put live it for

tomorrow what can be don today”  – why not tackle what

can be done today? – why not free up brain space? one of

the reasons people fall into to this vague belief of living

things for another dayoverwhelmed with all the things

that is  asking for our time and attention we think – ah will

l’ll do this tomorrow and tomorrow  turns  into next month

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black history -Josephine Baker’s Fashion Revolution

Josephine Baker’s Fashion Revolution

Josephine Baker – The iconic performer revolutionized stage fashion with her

daring costumes and glamorous style, becoming one of the most

photographed women of her era.

Evening Wear – Off-stage, she popularized sleek, form-fitting evening gowns

and embraced the flapper style while adding her unique cultural flair.

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