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February 2, 2026

Say Yes to Yourself—Your Nervous System Will Thank You

Have you ever stopped to think about why your nerves get rattled when you’re not even doing anything? This could be a sign that you’re tired of being tired. Whenever you’re not being completely honest with yourself, your nervous system will start acting up. Why? Because your feelings matter. What you want out of life, believe it or not, is important—no matter what the naysayers will have you think. Your dreams are valid.

Think about it: how can you live a fulfilling life when you’re not being honest with yourself? This could be a major roadblock when it comes to moving forward in your life.

A Simple Practice That Changes Everything

One of the things I find helpful whenever I find myself in a place of confusion is this: I go outside and take a 20 to 30-minute walk. Studies show that when you go outside and walk, your nervous system becomes calm—not to mention the fresh air does wonders.

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January 31, 2026January 30, 2026

Simone Says Yes! Choosing Yourself in a World That Says Otherwise

Have you ever thought to yourself why so many people are eager to follow what everyone else is doing? As human beings, we are naturally drawn to coupling up—after all, the old saying goes “we’re stronger in numbers.” But what about being solo? Is there harm in being single?

The New Era of Self-Priority

In today’s society, many women are choosing to build their careers rather than starting a family. Dating has become a cesspool of survival, especially for women who have already taken that route. Women today are choosing themselves rather than being attracted to someone else simply for the sake of not being alone.

In an age where everything one could ever want is at your fingertips, women are choosing their careers and building their own ecosystems. Gone are the days where one has to solve problems alone—with technology, the answers are at your fingertips. Continue reading “Simone Says Yes! Choosing Yourself in a World That Says Otherwise”

January 30, 2026January 30, 2026

Act: Choosing Kindness Over Reaction

The Last Act: Choosing Kindness Over Reaction

What would you do if someone told you “No”? Would you react defensively, or would you move forward and exercise your faith? Most people would rather push their way through when it comes to the things they want or believe they should have, and in some cases this may be a good alternative—but not so much when dealing with people. As the old saying goes, “there’s more than one way to skin a cat” (although I must say I’m not too proud of that statement, being a cat lover myself). The point I’m making is that kindness will get you much further than rudeness.

One day I was short on cash and had to be somewhere quickly, so I went to the store where I knew an ATM was provided for customers. I have to admit I don’t regularly go to an ATM—I prefer to go to the bank, not only because it’s safer but also because you don’t get hit with ATM fees. As I was fumbling with the machine, a woman behind me spoke in a, well, not-so-kind voice, asking me if I was using the machine. Clearly I was using it—everyone in the store looked up as her voice projected throughout the space.

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January 28, 2026January 30, 2026

Everything You Need Is Already Within You

What if I told you that everything you’ve ever wanted is already inside of you?

Many people operate under the false notion that they need to study for years on end to be successful. Don’t get me wrong—education is definitely a powerful tool to have. I believe in higher education. But what I’m discussing here is something much deeper: an inner knowing of what you can become, if only given the chance.

From the time you were born, you were programmed to become who you are right now. Think about it: your parents told you what to eat, how to speak. Then you went to school and they told you how to think. You really never had a choice or the time to find out who you truly are.

In a world that is always evolving, it’s pretty safe to say we as a society are confused.

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January 26, 2026January 26, 2026

What About the Old You? Embracing Your 2026 Transformation

Whenever self-development becomes your priority, major changes start to happen. You start to witness life from a different lens. This can leave many put off by your newfound knowledge of self. Why? Well, for one, you are no longer the pawn in someone else’s story.

The Threat of Your Growth

Most people can feel threatened, even resentful, of you taking the initiative to make yourself a priority. Life is full of challenges—but 2026 is your year to shine brighter than you have ever done before. You’ve been in the tunnel, digging yourself out of a tomb you found yourself in.

No more are the days of selfless acts where you sacrifice your own wants or needs. 2026 is your year of redemption.

Your Circle Will Reveal Itself

Some will cheer you on, and some will hate you. And well, the others will fall in line. Why? Because you are an asset! Anyone who has taken the time to invest in themselves becomes a valuable presence in any space they occupy.

When you commit to growth, you naturally elevate. Your energy shifts. Your standards rise. Your boundaries become non-negotiable. And not everyone will be comfortable with this version of you—and that’s okay.

The people who truly love and support you will celebrate your transformation. They’ll see the light in your eyes returning, the confidence in your voice growing, the peace in your spirit deepening. These are your people.

The ones who resist your growth? They’re revealing where they are on their own journey. Their discomfort isn’t about you—it’s about what your transformation reflects back to them about their own stagnation.

Shedding the Old Skin

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January 25, 2026

Self-Care or Your Worth It? The Mirror Doesn’t Lie

Many people are opposed to looking at themselves in the mirror when it comes to seeing their natural beauty. I believe this stems from something deeper.

The Science Behind Mirror Avoidance

Studies have shown that due to low self-esteem, many people are uncomfortable with looking at themselves in the mirror. This is usually the case for someone who has dealt with some form of trauma. I myself was very uncomfortable with staring at myself in the mirror for quite some time.

There has been a large percentage of people in the modeling industry who have suffered from low self-esteem—it’s hard to imagine, but true. It’s kind of up there with the girl who’s deemed the prettiest girl in the school but never has a date. In many cases, when you speak to this young woman, they didn’t see themselves the way others saw them.

How We View Ourselves Matters

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January 23, 2026January 25, 2026

Fine-Tune Your Way of Thinking 💭

Hey, we are all oppressed—say the thoughts that come to the brain of a healthy thinker. Millions of people are proving to themselves that they are right to let go of the thought of becoming something grand or better, in whatever version they believe they once were able to achieve. This is one of the reasons why I believe people are sometimes threatened by others when they see someone close to them achieving their dreams. No one wants to look through a glass mirror only to see a reflection they’re not familiar with.

Last year I took up ballet 🩰. Of course, I already had in my mind that I was a prima ballerina—I bought the tights, leotards, cute little skirts. I even bought a ballet bar so I could practice. I realized pretty early in the game that I was going to have to get in shape in order to have my toes do any type of pointing. I watched countless ballet training videos, only to realize my dream of becoming a prima ballerina at the age of 52 may be only realized in my head.

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January 22, 2026January 21, 2026

Life Hack 101 1️⃣: Look to the Stars for Your Life Choices

Many people find it difficult to make decisions without consulting someone else. Although this can be a good thing—after all, the saying goes “two minds are better than one,” right?—well, that may not always be the case.

The Science of Sharing Too Soon

Neurologists suggest that when you speak about something too early—opening up a new business, writing a book, etc.—the brain receives what I would call a sense of DOPamine, leaving you feeling like you actually did the thing.

Have you ever noticed that whenever you’ve shared a thought about something too early with someone, your immediate desire tends to deflate? This is something that many people don’t realize has happened.

The Power of Mindfulness and Silence

This is where practicing mindfulness becomes a great asset. As you become aware of your thoughts, the likelihood of you having the need to share those thoughts will diminish—or at least you’ll be more mindful of what you share.

Mindfulness allows dreams to flourish. By the time others become aware, you’ve already accomplished your goals.

Your Nudge to Stay Silent

This is your nudge to remain silent when it comes to your dreams. Guard them, nurture them in private, and let your results speak louder than your words ever could.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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Peace, Love and Blessings Lovelies Xoxo.

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January 21, 2026January 21, 2026

Lighthouse: Following Your Path

Have you noticed that whenever you are presented with an opportunity to broaden yourself, there comes resistance? This is not a coincidence—this is your brain trying to protect you. Your brain doesn’t know the difference between good or bad when it comes to you achieving something new. All it knows is that this is a new experience you are attempting, which is unfamiliar to your brain. So how do you continue?

Taking Small Steps Forward

Studies show that when you take reinforced baby steps towards your goals despite those reluctant thoughts, you allow for the gradual ease of comfort. It’s not to say fear will totally subside; as time goes by, the push and pull will slowly move towards motivation.

My Personal Experience

This is something I’ve noticed whenever I started a new workout routine. At first, the feeling of being overwhelmed starts to manifest within my body. As I push through the new routine, something happens: I start to get not only comfortable, but a sort of excitement starts to happen. It’s not to say I’m doing the moves perfectly—my confidence starts to arise, enabling me to have a better workout experience. Something I don’t think would’ve happened if I gave into the fear.

Fear as a Guide, Not a Barrier

Remember, fear is part of you acknowledging that the path you’re on should be studied, yes—but not necessarily the road you shouldn’t take. So the next time you find yourself moving towards a new path, whether it be starting a new business or a new workout regime, step back, breathe, and remind yourself this new path is a good thing.

Move forward—you are the light the world needs.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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January 18, 2026January 16, 2026

You Have the Right Mind to Learn: Reclaiming Your Thoughts in a World of Manipulation

Have you ever walked into a department store and noticed the music playing unusually loud? It’s not by accident. Studies show that many retailers use music strategically to subconsciously influence you to buy more. This is one reason why the holiday season is such a massive money-maker—festive music triggers emotional responses that lead to spending. The music industry knows this too, which is why there are countless holiday songs designed to tap into our emotions and memories.

Every day, millions of people are told what to think and how to think, especially when it benefits someone else. It wasn’t until I started practicing mindfulness that I began to notice this pattern in human behavior. Everyone is trying to get what they want; unfortunately some form of manipulation is often involved.

I remember as a kid, whenever I didn’t want to eat something, I was told, “If you want to grow up and be big and strong, you have to eat this.” Or one of my favorites: “Oh my, can you do XYZ for me please? Because you do it the best!” Sound familiar?

Here’s my point: You don’t have to fall for it any longer!

You have the ability to stand firm and say, “No, thank you,” despite what others would have you think or do. You are always the main character of your story. Being okay with being the “villain” in someone else’s story will not only free you from the anxiety of pretending to be something you’re not, but you also owe it to yourself to stand tall while living a purposeful life that you created for yourself—one you can be proud of.

The next time you find someone else behind the glass screen of your life, take a step back and make sure it’s you behind that screen. Reclaim your thoughts. Reclaim your power. Reclaim your story.

You got this!

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Elizabeth

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