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You Have the Right Mind to Learn: Reclaiming Your Thoughts in a World of Manipulation

You Have the Right Mind to Learn: Reclaiming Your Thoughts in a World of Manipulation

Have you ever walked into a department store and noticed the music playing unusually loud? It’s not by accident. Studies show that many retailers use music strategically to subconsciously influence you to buy more. This is one reason why the holiday season is such a massive money-maker—festive music triggers emotional responses that lead to spending. The music industry knows this too, which is why there are countless holiday songs designed to tap into our emotions and memories.

Every day, millions of people are told what to think and how to think, especially when it benefits someone else. It wasn’t until I started practicing mindfulness that I began to notice this pattern in human behavior. Everyone is trying to get what they want; unfortunately some form of manipulation is often involved.

I remember as a kid, whenever I didn’t want to eat something, I was told, “If you want to grow up and be big and strong, you have to eat this.” Or one of my favorites: “Oh my, can you do XYZ for me please? Because you do it the best!” Sound familiar?

Here’s my point: You don’t have to fall for it any longer!

You have the ability to stand firm and say, “No, thank you,” despite what others would have you think or do. You are always the main character of your story. Being okay with being the “villain” in someone else’s story will not only free you from the anxiety of pretending to be something you’re not, but you also owe it to yourself to stand tall while living a purposeful life that you created for yourself—one you can be proud of.

The next time you find someone else behind the glass screen of your life, take a step back and make sure it’s you behind that screen. Reclaim your thoughts. Reclaim your power. Reclaim your story.

You got this!

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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Red Means Money 💰 The Power of Red Nails

Red Means Money 💰 The Power of Red Nails

Studies show that the color red brings forth passion, power, and confidence—so why do many women tend to shy away from it? Although nowadays red is still seen as a passionate color, many women may not know the theory behind red.

The Psychology Behind Red

It’s suggested that whenever a woman wears red, she is giving off a signal of passion, power, and homemaker energy. One reason being: most memories of red nail polish are associated with childhood memories of a boy’s mom or teacher, as red was the go-to back in the day—hence one of the reasons why red is a classic color.

My Red Nail Experiment

Unbeknownst to me, being aware of this particular theory recently, I went to my nail appointment. The color red has been my staple for some time now—only this time I got acrylic nails 💅🏽. If you know anything about acrylic nails, they’re very attractive. Guess what color I got? Yep, you guessed it—red!

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Reclaiming Your Inner Goddess in Your Silver Years

Reclaiming Your Inner Goddess in Your Silver Years

There’s something magical about stepping into your 50s and beyond—a time when you start reclaiming who you truly are, unapologetically. This is the era of the inner goddess, where self-love isn’t just a concept but a daily practice. It’s about loving the skin you’re in and celebrating every curve, every line, and every story your body tells.

Fashion That Honors Your Body

This October, I’ve been reflecting on how my style has evolved. Now in my 50s, I’ve realized certain trends no longer resonate with me—short shorts and mini skirts have taken a backseat, not because of age, but because my vibe has shifted. This fall, I’m embracing dresses and pencil skirts.

Can we talk about pencil skirts? They’re absolutely sexy! I love how they hug the hips and celebrate a woman’s shape, especially if you’re more pear-shaped like myself. At 5’8″, a pencil skirt has always been flattering on me. It’s an oldie but goodie that I wore constantly when I worked a physical job, and I’m bringing it back into rotation.

The Art of Pre-Loved Treasures

Fall is the perfect time to incorporate a trench coat, and thrift stores or eBay allow you to invest in quality pieces without dropping major coin. I recently scored a gorgeous lined trench on eBay—warm, chic, and with a removable liner. I wasn’t ready to spend a fortune but wanted something well-made. When you’re a tall girly like myself, quality matters!

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Nervous System Reboot: Getting Back on Track in 2026

Nervous System Reboot: Getting Back on Track in 2026

As the year progresses, most New Year’s resolutions tend to sway to the wayside. This can leave you feeling depressed or even anxious. Approximately 80% of New Year’s resolutions are abandoned by mid-February. Why is that?

I believe this happens because systems are not put in place. As the saying goes, “Not preparing is preparing to fail.” With everything asking for your attention, it’s no wonder you barely have time for a cup of coffee, never alone a sensible meal

Here are some things I believe will help put you back on track, allowing you to

get back into that lovely dress you bought that wasn’t on

sale—purchased with the belief you’d be shedding those

stubborn menopause pounds:

1. Set a Time for Your Last Meal of the Day

This will eliminate those late-night snacks before bedtime. When you establish a clear boundary around eating times, your body begins to regulate itself more naturally. Your nervous system learns when to expect nourishment and when to rest.

2. Brush Your Teeth After Dinner

This has been a game changer for me! Not wanting to deal with the hassle of flossing and brushing again helps keep me from those late-night snacks. It’s a simple psychological trick that signals to your brain that eating time is over for the day.

3. Keep Your Workout Clothes Close

Place them right next to your bed—yes, even on your nightstand if needed! The less you have to think about in the morning, the better. Having your gym attire close by makes getting ready much easier, allowing less resistance when it comes to keeping up with your workout routine.

The Confidence Connection

I believe when we make our routines a priority, we also acquire self-confidence. Each small win builds momentum. Every time you follow through on a commitment to yourself, you’re sending a powerful message to your nervous system: “I am reliable. I keep my promises to myself.”

Your nervous system craves consistency and predictability. When you establish these simple routines, you’re not just working toward physical goals—you’re creating a foundation of trust with yourself that ripples into every area of your life.

Keep going. You got this.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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Would You Bet on You?

Would You Bet on You?

Whenever someone is asked who their biggest supporters are, most would say a close family member or friend—if you’re lucky, you could say both. But the real question is: Would you bet on yourself?

Think about that question for a minute. How does it make you feel?

This is a question I’ve confronted myself with many times. Most times, it was a hard yes. But as time progressed and my goals became bigger, that pit in my stomach started to grow. The question echoed louder: Would you bet on you?

As I sat with that question, a faint, distant voice said YES! Yes to the dream that once seemed impossible. Yes to all the times I looked the other way, fearful of acknowledging the painful truth: “No one is coming to save you.” This is a fact.

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Make It Happen Even Though You Don’t Know How

Make It Happen Even Though You Don’t Know How

We’ve been blessed with many examples of great speakers who mastered conflict resolution. Take the legendary speech Mr. Rockefeller gave when death was at his doorstep—his words not only calmed his enemies but convinced striking workers to return to their jobs. It’s an amazing speech worth checking out.

Here’s the thing: you may not be able to deliver a great speech like that, but you do have the ability to think—and that’s powerful.

Many people today are in a hurry. Being from NYC myself, we have this thing we call “city legs.” If you don’t walk fast or move out of the way, you’ll hear something like “move!” or “you forgot your city legs.” It’s a real thing—people in NYC are always on the move, and if you can’t keep up in the heart of the city, well, good luck!

But seriously, taking time to assess any situation gives you a leg up (no pun intended). I’m sure Mr. Rockefeller had the ability to bulldoze his way through, but instead he chose to think his way through and made history with his eloquent speech.

You have the same abilities. So the next time you find yourself in an uproar, step back and ask yourself: What can I offer or say that will cool the hot tempers before me?

This approach will help both your business and personal life. Remember, success comes to those who are capable of remaining calm.

Make 2026 the year of thinking clearly.

Hugs,

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What Happens Now? The Art of Receiving in 2026

What Happens Now? The Art of Receiving in 2026

Congratulations, you made it! 2026 is your year to shine, give, and—here’s the important part—receive.

Many people experience discomfort with receiving. Research shows that when it comes to accepting kindness, compliments, or positive energy, we tend to deflect rather than embrace.

Think about it: Someone says, “I love that dress!” What’s your instinctive response? Probably something like, “Oh, this old thing? I’ve had it for years.” Instead of simply saying thank you and allowing yourself to receive the positive energy.

I struggled with this for years—until I started playing a little game that became a complete game changer.

The “I Receive That” Practice

Whenever someone pays me a compliment, I now take a moment to truly hear the words. I pause, allow myself to receive what the other person is offering, and then I say: “I receive that” or “I receive your kind words.”

Here’s what this simple practice does:

  • It gives you the opportunity to practice mindfulness
  • It allows you to examine and internalize the words you just received
  • It helps you conclude for yourself that this is a good thing
  • It builds confidence and trust
  • It shows genuine gratitude, which people deeply appreciate

The Power of Perspective

Most people have been taught to be humble to the detriment of themselves. But here’s the truth: when you perceive something to be good, your mind and body will more than likely receive it.

Think about it this way: When you’re working out and see a bottle of water, you see it as a good thing. That’s one reason you’re more likely to drink water in that moment than if you were sitting at your desk. It’s all about perspective.

Your Challenge for 2026

The next time someone says something kind to you, take a few minutes to internalize their words. Remember: You have the power to receive or deny something.

Make 2026 the year you say “YES” to yourself.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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Love It or Live It – You’re Here to Stay

Love It or Live It – You’re Here to Stay

After the holidays, most people are focused on their new year resolutions: going to the gym, eating healthier, or starting a business. All good things! Unfortunately, self-care usually sits at the bottom of their list.

Studies show that the inability to practice self-care stems from a lack of emotional awareness. I myself thought that I was doing a great job of practicing self-care—every two weeks I was getting my nails done, keeping up with hair appointments. It wasn’t until I had my own episode of burnout that I realized I wasn’t paying attention to my mental wellbeing, not to mention my nervous system was out of control. My ability to make decisions was always at a high level of stress.

Needless to say, I couldn’t go on like this.

The Wake-Up Call

After deep reflection, time off, and therapy, I realized I wasn’t spending time with me. The one person who needed me the most was myself. On the outside, everything was great—but what about the inside? The places where only you are aware of?

Self-care is more than a mani-pedi appointment.

Real Self-Care: Going Deeper

Setting time to reflect on some of the things that are truly important in your life is not only eye-opening but also soul-healing. It’s about:

  • Checking in with your emotional state regularly
  • Creating space for quiet reflection and stillness
  • Acknowledging when your nervous system needs regulation
  • Making decisions from a place of peace, not stress
  • Honoring the internal work, not just the external maintenance

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Yes Equals Yes! The Art of Creating Agreement

Yes Equals Yes! The Art of Creating Agreement

Nowadays, getting a yes out of anyone is met with some type of skepticism—and rightfully so. With all the scam artists that have plagued humanity this century, it’s no wonder people are bound to say “No” before saying “Yes.”

I learned pretty early in life that a “maybe” is way better than a hard “No.” Growing up in an environment where my mom was a hardworking single parent, “No” rolled off her tongue faster than a smile. Whenever I wanted to boost my chances of getting a yes, I was sure to create what I would call a yes environment.

Creating the Yes Environment

Making sure the dishes were done, clothing put away, even setting time aside to have a hot beverage for her to drink—these weren’t just chores. They were investments in creating the right atmosphere.

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Are You a Good Listener?

Are You a Good Listener?

Many people assume they’re listening when in reality, they’re only listening to themselves. Have you ever held a conversation with someone and felt like they were waiting for their turn to speak, while the whole time their eyes glaze over you? Don’t feel bad if that person was you; I myself had to come to grips with that fact, especially when I believed that being quiet when others were speaking made me a good listener—when that was only a half-truth. Listening attentively is the key to great communication.

When I was in high school, I was blessed to have some of the best teachers, but one stuck out the most. Every day she would be in her office after class with her door open. Plants 🪴 would cascade across her windowsill. There was always one student in the room having lunch. At first, I found it to be odd, only to find myself doing the same later on in the year. Soon the room was filled with students coming in and out at all times.

One of the things I noticed was she didn’t talk much—she listened to us talk. She was present while we poured our little hearts out to her, whether it be about heartbreak or being poorly graded on an assignment. She would listen. Once we were done talking, she would warmly say, “It’s time to go to the next class.”

What we received from her was more than a lunch period—we felt seen, we all felt heard.

The next time someone enters your space, try to practice active listening. Who knows what can come of it, but there’s one thing for certain: that person will leave your presence feeling seen and heard.

Hugs 💕

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