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Stop looking at the marketplace and start looking at the “gain”

“Stop looking at the marketplace and start looking at the “gain”

Nowadays people are worried about money and how could they not be- with

gas prices at an all time high – don’t even get me started on the egg prices–

who ever thought we would have to choose between buying meat and eggs –

I don’t know about you but  I’d love to have a nice steak and egg moment just saying!

While exact statistics specifically linking depression to unfulfilled dreams vary-

research suggests that individuals who feel unable to pursue their passions often experience:

  • Higher rates of job dissatisfaction and work-related stress
  • Increased risk of anxiety and depressive symptoms
  • Lower overall life satisfaction scores

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Living the “soft life – why it could be “beneficial for you”

Living the “soft life – why it could be “beneficial for you”

As time pass  by; It’s to say “feeling a bit overwhelmed”

cold be an under – statement

with all  life has been throwing at use – buying

groceries has become a sport; lately I’ve been making

it a point to practice  mindfulness: showing my self

grace when ever I can – Continue reading “Living the “soft life – why it could be “beneficial for you””

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Just another day – why ask why

Just another day – why ask why

Now that spring is officially here; the time has come – for the “re-introduction”

of getting conformable with the  unconformable in these next  few moths.

 

Time to hammer out all the negative thoughts  – you’ve been holding on to all winter – thoughts  of lake.  low self wreath – not expecting  to be on the winning side  of life  –

  • wine at love
  • wine at relationships
  • wine at life

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Understanding the true meaning of life – “self awareness”

Understanding the true meaning of life – “self awareness 

Remember when 90’s r&b was hot back I’m the day – ah the good old day’s;

those we’re the  times when  people were what seem’s the happiest and

artists took the time to create music that shed light and love.

With the world now promoting Misery and doubt – it’s no wonder the world has

become such a lonely place- or is it?

The meaning of loneliness :

“Loneliness” : some type of life transition or

lifestyle choice that reduces the number of

perceived connections with other people, both

physically and emotionally :

The question posed ; what created the “loneliness”

people are now feeling – in a would filled with social media one would think 🤔 people would be

anything but: think about it – social connection is just

a click away – with the massive upgrades of the cell phones people are staying

connected even more then before-  in my day – the only way you were able to

connected to your friends – was to go outside or have a sleep over; well that’s

if your partners were A) cool enough B) could afford such gatherings- A or B

wasn’t happening in my home due to my mom being a single parent- her mean

concern was  keeping us safe and putting food on the table; none the less I had

a great child hood – I’m proud to say.

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Ageism’s Impact in the Black Community

Ageism’s Impact in the Black Community

Ageism intersects with racial discrimination to create unique challenges for Black individuals:

black people are being faced with the on going question – across the bord; who is going to look after me when I get older and how can I receive a fear shoot with out being discriminated? 

Age has always been a sensitive topic with more communities –  with out love one around; many are faces the aging process alone ; Especially in the lower income family with in the black communities –

Intergenerational Wealth Gap: Historical discrimination and systemic barriers have made it harder for older Black adults to accumulate wealth, affecting their retirement security and access to care. Continue reading “Ageism’s Impact in the Black Community”

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Black history – The magic of “Afro – Hair”

I couldn’t end this month  – with out discussing the power of “Afro – hair “  for centuries  black women hair has been a hot topic, So much that in 1786, the Tignon Laws were passed in Louisiana,

requiring Black women to cover their hair

with a cloth head covering (tignon). This

law was enacted because free women of

color were wearing elaborate hairstyles;

but of corse the power of “black a women” could never be with out with out its own bones – black women started to adorn

there hared rapes with pearl, flowers and so much more bring even more Continue reading “Black history – The magic of “Afro – Hair””

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black history -Josephine Baker’s Fashion Revolution

Josephine Baker’s Fashion Revolution

Josephine Baker – The iconic performer revolutionized stage fashion with her

daring costumes and glamorous style, becoming one of the most

photographed women of her era.

Evening Wear – Off-stage, she popularized sleek, form-fitting evening gowns

and embraced the flapper style while adding her unique cultural flair.

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Black history – Head raps

Black history – Head raps

The history of head wraps (also known as head ties or turbans) among Black

women dates back to slavery in America, but their origins trace back even

further to West Africa where they were symbols of status and identity. During

slavery in America (1619-1865), head wraps became both a practical necessity

and a form of cultural resistance. They were initially forced upon enslaved women as a symbol of oppression, Continue reading “Black history – Head raps”

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2025 Now what? “Do what works”

Happy New Year guys! 2025 is here to stay we’ll at lest for 12 months- So Now

what?  Ever year were fast with the question of what next this question can live

use feel lonely and undeserving of the thought of starting over way it be a new

life or a complete change altogether.

So how do we get pass these thought or even the feeling of being

undeserving!  visualization: Start with clearly visualizing what you want your

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