What Happens Now? The Art of Receiving in 2026
Congratulations, you made it! 2026 is your year to shine, give, and—here’s the important part—receive.
Many people experience discomfort with receiving. Research shows that when it comes to accepting kindness, compliments, or positive energy, we tend to deflect rather than embrace.
Think about it: Someone says, “I love that dress!” What’s your instinctive response? Probably something like, “Oh, this old thing? I’ve had it for years.” Instead of simply saying thank you and allowing yourself to receive the positive energy.
I struggled with this for years—until I started playing a little game that became a complete game changer.
The “I Receive That” Practice
Whenever someone pays me a compliment, I now take a moment to truly hear the words. I pause, allow myself to receive what the other person is offering, and then I say: “I receive that” or “I receive your kind words.”
Here’s what this simple practice does:
- It gives you the opportunity to practice mindfulness
- It allows you to examine and internalize the words you just received
- It helps you conclude for yourself that this is a good thing
- It builds confidence and trust
- It shows genuine gratitude, which people deeply appreciate
The Power of Perspective
Most people have been taught to be humble to the detriment of themselves. But here’s the truth: when you perceive something to be good, your mind and body will more than likely receive it.
Think about it this way: When you’re working out and see a bottle of water, you see it as a good thing. That’s one reason you’re more likely to drink water in that moment than if you were sitting at your desk. It’s all about perspective.
Your Challenge for 2026
The next time someone says something kind to you, take a few minutes to internalize their words. Remember: You have the power to receive or deny something.
Make 2026 the year you say “YES” to yourself.
Hugs,
Elizabeth
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Peace, Love and Blessings Lovelies Xoxo.
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