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February 2, 2026

Say Yes to Yourself—Your Nervous System Will Thank You

Have you ever stopped to think about why your nerves get rattled when you’re not even doing anything? This could be a sign that you’re tired of being tired. Whenever you’re not being completely honest with yourself, your nervous system will start acting up. Why? Because your feelings matter. What you want out of life, believe it or not, is important—no matter what the naysayers will have you think. Your dreams are valid.

Think about it: how can you live a fulfilling life when you’re not being honest with yourself? This could be a major roadblock when it comes to moving forward in your life.

A Simple Practice That Changes Everything

One of the things I find helpful whenever I find myself in a place of confusion is this: I go outside and take a 20 to 30-minute walk. Studies show that when you go outside and walk, your nervous system becomes calm—not to mention the fresh air does wonders.

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January 31, 2026January 30, 2026

Simone Says Yes! Choosing Yourself in a World That Says Otherwise

Have you ever thought to yourself why so many people are eager to follow what everyone else is doing? As human beings, we are naturally drawn to coupling up—after all, the old saying goes “we’re stronger in numbers.” But what about being solo? Is there harm in being single?

The New Era of Self-Priority

In today’s society, many women are choosing to build their careers rather than starting a family. Dating has become a cesspool of survival, especially for women who have already taken that route. Women today are choosing themselves rather than being attracted to someone else simply for the sake of not being alone.

In an age where everything one could ever want is at your fingertips, women are choosing their careers and building their own ecosystems. Gone are the days where one has to solve problems alone—with technology, the answers are at your fingertips. Continue reading “Simone Says Yes! Choosing Yourself in a World That Says Otherwise”

January 26, 2026January 26, 2026

What About the Old You? Embracing Your 2026 Transformation

Whenever self-development becomes your priority, major changes start to happen. You start to witness life from a different lens. This can leave many put off by your newfound knowledge of self. Why? Well, for one, you are no longer the pawn in someone else’s story.

The Threat of Your Growth

Most people can feel threatened, even resentful, of you taking the initiative to make yourself a priority. Life is full of challenges—but 2026 is your year to shine brighter than you have ever done before. You’ve been in the tunnel, digging yourself out of a tomb you found yourself in.

No more are the days of selfless acts where you sacrifice your own wants or needs. 2026 is your year of redemption.

Your Circle Will Reveal Itself

Some will cheer you on, and some will hate you. And well, the others will fall in line. Why? Because you are an asset! Anyone who has taken the time to invest in themselves becomes a valuable presence in any space they occupy.

When you commit to growth, you naturally elevate. Your energy shifts. Your standards rise. Your boundaries become non-negotiable. And not everyone will be comfortable with this version of you—and that’s okay.

The people who truly love and support you will celebrate your transformation. They’ll see the light in your eyes returning, the confidence in your voice growing, the peace in your spirit deepening. These are your people.

The ones who resist your growth? They’re revealing where they are on their own journey. Their discomfort isn’t about you—it’s about what your transformation reflects back to them about their own stagnation.

Shedding the Old Skin

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January 25, 2026

Self-Care or Your Worth It? The Mirror Doesn’t Lie

Many people are opposed to looking at themselves in the mirror when it comes to seeing their natural beauty. I believe this stems from something deeper.

The Science Behind Mirror Avoidance

Studies have shown that due to low self-esteem, many people are uncomfortable with looking at themselves in the mirror. This is usually the case for someone who has dealt with some form of trauma. I myself was very uncomfortable with staring at myself in the mirror for quite some time.

There has been a large percentage of people in the modeling industry who have suffered from low self-esteem—it’s hard to imagine, but true. It’s kind of up there with the girl who’s deemed the prettiest girl in the school but never has a date. In many cases, when you speak to this young woman, they didn’t see themselves the way others saw them.

How We View Ourselves Matters

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January 23, 2026January 25, 2026

Fine-Tune Your Way of Thinking 💭

Hey, we are all oppressed—say the thoughts that come to the brain of a healthy thinker. Millions of people are proving to themselves that they are right to let go of the thought of becoming something grand or better, in whatever version they believe they once were able to achieve. This is one of the reasons why I believe people are sometimes threatened by others when they see someone close to them achieving their dreams. No one wants to look through a glass mirror only to see a reflection they’re not familiar with.

Last year I took up ballet 🩰. Of course, I already had in my mind that I was a prima ballerina—I bought the tights, leotards, cute little skirts. I even bought a ballet bar so I could practice. I realized pretty early in the game that I was going to have to get in shape in order to have my toes do any type of pointing. I watched countless ballet training videos, only to realize my dream of becoming a prima ballerina at the age of 52 may be only realized in my head.

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January 22, 2026January 21, 2026

Life Hack 101 1️⃣: Look to the Stars for Your Life Choices

Many people find it difficult to make decisions without consulting someone else. Although this can be a good thing—after all, the saying goes “two minds are better than one,” right?—well, that may not always be the case.

The Science of Sharing Too Soon

Neurologists suggest that when you speak about something too early—opening up a new business, writing a book, etc.—the brain receives what I would call a sense of DOPamine, leaving you feeling like you actually did the thing.

Have you ever noticed that whenever you’ve shared a thought about something too early with someone, your immediate desire tends to deflate? This is something that many people don’t realize has happened.

The Power of Mindfulness and Silence

This is where practicing mindfulness becomes a great asset. As you become aware of your thoughts, the likelihood of you having the need to share those thoughts will diminish—or at least you’ll be more mindful of what you share.

Mindfulness allows dreams to flourish. By the time others become aware, you’ve already accomplished your goals.

Your Nudge to Stay Silent

This is your nudge to remain silent when it comes to your dreams. Guard them, nurture them in private, and let your results speak louder than your words ever could.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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January 17, 2026January 16, 2026

Red Means Money 💰 The Power of Red Nails

Studies show that the color red brings forth passion, power, and confidence—so why do many women tend to shy away from it? Although nowadays red is still seen as a passionate color, many women may not know the theory behind red.

The Psychology Behind Red

It’s suggested that whenever a woman wears red, she is giving off a signal of passion, power, and homemaker energy. One reason being: most memories of red nail polish are associated with childhood memories of a boy’s mom or teacher, as red was the go-to back in the day—hence one of the reasons why red is a classic color.

My Red Nail Experiment

Unbeknownst to me, being aware of this particular theory recently, I went to my nail appointment. The color red has been my staple for some time now—only this time I got acrylic nails 💅🏽. If you know anything about acrylic nails, they’re very attractive. Guess what color I got? Yep, you guessed it—red!

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January 16, 2026January 14, 2026

Reclaiming Your Inner Goddess in Your Silver Years

There’s something magical about stepping into your 50s and beyond—a time when you start reclaiming who you truly are, unapologetically. This is the era of the inner goddess, where self-love isn’t just a concept but a daily practice. It’s about loving the skin you’re in and celebrating every curve, every line, and every story your body tells.

Fashion That Honors Your Body

This October, I’ve been reflecting on how my style has evolved. Now in my 50s, I’ve realized certain trends no longer resonate with me—short shorts and mini skirts have taken a backseat, not because of age, but because my vibe has shifted. This fall, I’m embracing dresses and pencil skirts.

Can we talk about pencil skirts? They’re absolutely sexy! I love how they hug the hips and celebrate a woman’s shape, especially if you’re more pear-shaped like myself. At 5’8″, a pencil skirt has always been flattering on me. It’s an oldie but goodie that I wore constantly when I worked a physical job, and I’m bringing it back into rotation.

The Art of Pre-Loved Treasures

Fall is the perfect time to incorporate a trench coat, and thrift stores or eBay allow you to invest in quality pieces without dropping major coin. I recently scored a gorgeous lined trench on eBay—warm, chic, and with a removable liner. I wasn’t ready to spend a fortune but wanted something well-made. When you’re a tall girly like myself, quality matters!

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January 15, 2026January 14, 2026

Nervous System Reboot: Getting Back on Track in 2026

As the year progresses, most New Year’s resolutions tend to sway to the wayside. This can leave you feeling depressed or even anxious. Approximately 80% of New Year’s resolutions are abandoned by mid-February. Why is that?

I believe this happens because systems are not put in place. As the saying goes, “Not preparing is preparing to fail.” With everything asking for your attention, it’s no wonder you barely have time for a cup of coffee, never alone a sensible meal

Here are some things I believe will help put you back on track, allowing you to

get back into that lovely dress you bought that wasn’t on

sale—purchased with the belief you’d be shedding those

stubborn menopause pounds:

1. Set a Time for Your Last Meal of the Day

This will eliminate those late-night snacks before bedtime. When you establish a clear boundary around eating times, your body begins to regulate itself more naturally. Your nervous system learns when to expect nourishment and when to rest.

2. Brush Your Teeth After Dinner

This has been a game changer for me! Not wanting to deal with the hassle of flossing and brushing again helps keep me from those late-night snacks. It’s a simple psychological trick that signals to your brain that eating time is over for the day.

3. Keep Your Workout Clothes Close

Place them right next to your bed—yes, even on your nightstand if needed! The less you have to think about in the morning, the better. Having your gym attire close by makes getting ready much easier, allowing less resistance when it comes to keeping up with your workout routine.

The Confidence Connection

I believe when we make our routines a priority, we also acquire self-confidence. Each small win builds momentum. Every time you follow through on a commitment to yourself, you’re sending a powerful message to your nervous system: “I am reliable. I keep my promises to myself.”

Your nervous system craves consistency and predictability. When you establish these simple routines, you’re not just working toward physical goals—you’re creating a foundation of trust with yourself that ripples into every area of your life.

Keep going. You got this.

Hugs,

Elizabeth

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January 12, 2026January 14, 2026

Make It Happen Even Though You Don’t Know How

Make It Happen Even Though You Don’t Know How

We’ve been blessed with many examples of great speakers who mastered conflict resolution. Take the legendary speech Mr. Rockefeller gave when death was at his doorstep—his words not only calmed his enemies but convinced striking workers to return to their jobs. It’s an amazing speech worth checking out.

Here’s the thing: you may not be able to deliver a great speech like that, but you do have the ability to think—and that’s powerful.

Many people today are in a hurry. Being from NYC myself, we have this thing we call “city legs.” If you don’t walk fast or move out of the way, you’ll hear something like “move!” or “you forgot your city legs.” It’s a real thing—people in NYC are always on the move, and if you can’t keep up in the heart of the city, well, good luck!

But seriously, taking time to assess any situation gives you a leg up (no pun intended). I’m sure Mr. Rockefeller had the ability to bulldoze his way through, but instead he chose to think his way through and made history with his eloquent speech.

You have the same abilities. So the next time you find yourself in an uproar, step back and ask yourself: What can I offer or say that will cool the hot tempers before me?

This approach will help both your business and personal life. Remember, success comes to those who are capable of remaining calm.

Make 2026 the year of thinking clearly.

Hugs,

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