Are You a Good Listener?

Are You a Good Listener?

Many people assume they’re listening when in reality, they’re only listening to themselves. Have you ever held a conversation with someone and felt like they were waiting for their turn to speak, while the whole time their eyes glaze over you? Don’t feel bad if that person was you; I myself had to come to grips with that fact, especially when I believed that being quiet when others were speaking made me a good listener—when that was only a half-truth. Listening attentively is the key to great communication.

When I was in high school, I was blessed to have some of the best teachers, but one stuck out the most. Every day she would be in her office after class with her door open. Plants 🪴 would cascade across her windowsill. There was always one student in the room having lunch. At first, I found it to be odd, only to find myself doing the same later on in the year. Soon the room was filled with students coming in and out at all times.

One of the things I noticed was she didn’t talk much—she listened to us talk. She was present while we poured our little hearts out to her, whether it be about heartbreak or being poorly graded on an assignment. She would listen. Once we were done talking, she would warmly say, “It’s time to go to the next class.”

What we received from her was more than a lunch period—we felt seen, we all felt heard.

The next time someone enters your space, try to practice active listening. Who knows what can come of it, but there’s one thing for certain: that person will leave your presence feeling seen and heard.

Hugs 💕

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Wrong or Right, You Win 🥇

Wrong or Right, You Win 🥇

Many people debate their thoughts every day, whether it be with themselves or with someone else. In most cases, one person or fact is right while the opposing argument is wrong, leaving the loser feeling indifferent. But what if there was no opposition and both parties were right?

One of the common arguments in a debate is to provide facts and prove one wrong. The issue here is that everyone has and is coming from a different point of view. Neuroscientists have proven that the brain is developed in such a way that everything a person experiences by the age of 5 will be carried out through their adult life. Hence, whatever life experiences—whether good or bad—we all have been affected by life interactions, shaping our ability or inability to understand other people’s opinions.

This is something I myself have come to realize as I started to understand and practice mindfulness. Once I started to pay attention to my own way of thinking, I was then able to connect the dots. The truth of the matter, when closely examined, is that most of the time it’s all one big misunderstanding.

This is why I believe, as it’s said in Matthew 7:3-5,when Jesus said to first take the plank out of your own eye before pointing at someone else’s. We all have areas we may not be able to see in ourselves. Rather than drive our beliefs home, it may be wise to take in what one is saying to ensure an opportunity to learn or change something in ourselves. This is one of the fastest ways to ensure success in anyone’s life.

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Elizabeth

 

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Finding Light in the Darkness: A Story of Resourcefulness and Grace 🍀

­Finding Light in the Darkness: A Story of Resourcefulness and Grace 🍀

There’s a beautiful truth about the human spirit—when faced with scarcity, we become masters of creativity.

I once heard a story about a 13-year-old boy who would wake before dawn to gather pieces of charcoal that fell from passing wagons. His family couldn’t afford to heat their home, so this young soul took it upon himself to provide warmth for those he loved. What courage. What determination.

This is how our minds work under pressure—we adapt, we innovate, we survive.

We’re all artists, really, painting our way through life with whatever brushes we’re given.

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Today’s Project: Making 2026 Your Most Prosperous Year Yet

 Making 2026 Your Most Prosperous Year Yet

Now that the holiday season is almost over, here are some of the things we can do to ensure that 2026 is a prosperous year! It’s easy to fall into complacency as the holidays can leave us stuffed with fine treats and good wine, leaving you feeling tired and a bit overwhelmed—especially if you haven’t planned a game plan of action.

I myself like to start preparing for the new year once October arrives (does Halloween ring a bell?). I discuss this further on the podcast at Elizabeth Magical Garden, where I break down the significance of planning ahead.

But what if you haven’t planned yet and don’t know where to start? Well, I have just the thing to help you on your way towards an amazing experience this year Continue reading “Today’s Project: Making 2026 Your Most Prosperous Year Yet”

The Body-Mind Disconnect: Why We’ve Lost Touch 🌸

The Body-Mind Disconnect: Why We’ve Lost Touch 🌸

In today’s fast-paced world, something profound has shifted in how women relate to their bodies. We’ve become strangers to ourselves—rushing through days on autopilot, ignoring the subtle signals our bodies send, and living perpetually disconnected from our feminine essence.

This disconnection isn’t limited to single mothers or women facing economic hardship. Even women in stable, two-parent households find themselves caught in this same trap. The truth is, stress doesn’t discriminate. Whether you’re juggling careers, managing households, or simply trying to meet the endless demands placed on modern women, the result is the same: we’ve lost touch with our bodies’ wisdom.

The Cost of Disconnection 💔

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Reclame your health – change what you conume 

Reclame your health – change what you conume 

When managing uterine fibroids, what you avoid eating can be just as important as what you include in your diet. Certain foods may contribute to inflammation, hormonal imbalances, and conditions that allow fibroids to thrive. Understanding these dietary triggers empowers you to make informed choices that support your body’s natural healing processes.

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Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing God’s Plan 🌟

Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing God’s Plan 🌟

 

There is no doubt in my mind perfectionism is ranking at the top of the list—it saddens me when I think to myself there’s a person right now who will never get the chance to experience all of what God has to offer all because of that person’s inability to think positive about an outcome— It wasn’t until I found myself on my own journey of doing inner work over two decades ago that I was confronted with these adverse thoughts.

The Prison of Perfectionism 🔒

Perfectionism is a silent dream killer. It whispers lies with phrases like you don’t have what is takes or another lie like your not  good enough, A mindset like this has kept many people stuck, preventing them from stepping into the fullness of their purpose and experiencing the abundant life God has prepared for them.

When we’re trapped in perfectionism, we’re essentially telling God that His grace isn’t sufficient—that we need to be flawless before we can move forward. But that’s not how divine love works. Continue reading “Breaking Free from Perfectionism: Embracing God’s Plan 🌟”

Reclaiming Your Inner Goddess in Your Silver Years 🌸

Reclaiming Your Inner Goddess in Your Silver Years 🌸

This week I wanted to share a couple of things that I’ve been loving for the last cauple of month.  Now that I’m in my 50s, I’ve come to realize there are certain things that I no longer really turn to when it comes to fashion. Short shorts or short skirts haven’t been my vibe pretty much, for the most part at least (lol)—not because of age.

This winter  I’m looking forward to implementing more dresses and pencil skirts. Pencil skirts are so sexy; I love how they hug the hips and show off a woman’s shape, especially if you’re more of a pear shape like myself. It’s amazing how they look on the body. I’m 5’8″, so a pencil skirt has always been flattering on me. It’s an oldie but goodie. When I was working a physical job, I would wear these types of skirts most of the time.

Pre-Loved Fashion Finds 💎

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New Moon in Virgo – 10 x Your Life 🌙

New Moon in Virgo – 10 x Your Life 🌙

It’s been quite some time since I’ve decided  Moon Energy — this New Moon in Virgo was too powerful to miss!

Before you start, be sure to check out this week’s episode at Elizabeth Magical Garden where I break down the energetic attributes of this New Moon in Virgo energy.

Virgo Energy; the magic it case ✨

Virgos are some of the most  talented people you would be happy  you come across. Their keen sense of detail is unmatched. Does Beyoncé ring a bell?

I had the pleasure to see the aka Queen Bee in concert — wow  is all I can say! This woman can hold a note and dance at the same time! Oh, and we can’t leave out Michael Jackson — another Virgo!

Re-Boot 🔄

Now that the darker half of the year has reached , the  New Moon in Virgo gives us the opportunity to shed light in  areas of our lives – that needed some fine tuning.  Dark moon energy can help put you on the right course this season.

CREATING – a  safe space  can allow the opportunity to give attention to these areas down  below: Continue reading “New Moon in Virgo – 10 x Your Life 🌙”

Who Cares What They Say 💭

Who Cares What They Say 💭

Right now, people all over the world are anticipating the arrival of family and friends—whether it be a colleague or a long-lost friend. Many are worrying about whether or not to bring up certain conversations that may trigger an emotion for one person or the next. This is a form of emotional distress that unfortunately many people are dealing with today. The holidays have become a landmine for people’s emotionally unkept thoughts.

One would say the holiday is the best place to lay down those memories. Studies show that many people stop coming home for the holidays due to unwanted conversations—sad but true. This concept has isolated many people from family and friends. I know because I too was one of them, until I did this one thing that I will share with you.

The Simple Shift That Changed Everything ✨

One of the things I noticed was whenever it was time to meet or see someone I haven’t spoken to in a while, I would start to formulate conversations that I believed were judgmental from that person in our last conversation. Now whether the conversation was judgmental or not, it was still “up to me” on whether I decided to participate in that judgmental conversation.

See, it’s never about them—it’s always about you. Once I made this simple shift in my thought process, it was a game changer.

You Are the Main Character 🌟

Think about it: you are always the main character in your story—who cares what they think? It’s all about you. Once we realize people’s opinions are their own thoughts, we free ourselves from being captive in someone else’s opinion of us.

This way of thinking will not only free you from other people’s opinions, but you’ll also be able to enjoy those around you. Why? Because nine times out of ten, those thoughts you had about other people’s opinions were all in your head.

Keep Shining 💜

Keep shining and focus on what truly matters most, and my friend, that is you. Hugs 🤗

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