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March 17, 2026March 18, 2026

Mean What You Say and Say What You Do

Hey there, welcome to today’s post!

Hi, I’m Elizabeth. You may know me from Elizabeth Magical Garden on YouTube or from my podcast, Elizabeth Magical Garden Podcast—also on YouTube.

This morning, I was reading poetry from Maya Angelou, something I’ve grown accustomed to lately, alongside a stiff black cup of coffee. I know, so NYC—but hey, that’s me!

In today’s poem, Maya Angelou discusses how words on paper are well received, but it’s the words that come out of a person’s mouth that truly bring them to life. It struck me—not because I wasn’t aware of it, but because of how profoundly true it is.

For years, I’ve personally felt this way. So much so that I would get on the nerves of close friends when they’d blurt something out. I would say in a loud but loving voice: “DON’T SAY THAT! YOUR WORDS ARE POWERFUL!”

Sometimes I’d get a thank you. Other times… well, not so much.

The Power of Words

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March 8, 2026March 17, 2026

Your Opportunity to Win: Turning “What If” Into “What Is” 🌟

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself why most people never pursue their dreams? Whether it’s writing a bestseller, flying across the country to start a school for children in need, or building the family of their dreams—the kind with a loving partner, children, a dog, and that white picket fence—why do so many dreams remain locked away, never given a chance to breathe?

Here’s what I believe: most people are afraid.

Afraid of themselves. Afraid of what others will think. And most of all, afraid of the outcome.

The Paralyzing Power of “What If” 💭

Studies show that people often become paralyzed by the thought of potential outcomes. You know the ones I’m talking about—the relentless “what ifs” that play on repeat in your mind:

“What if I don’t make it?”
“What if I’m a bad parent?”
“What if I fail at this new career?”

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March 6, 2026

It’s Right in Front of You—Use It! 🦸‍♀️

Every day, I do my best to look back and reflect on what worked and what felt like a struggle. This past week, I took a huge step forward—one that has the power to change life as I know it.

But here’s the thing: instead of feeling over-the-moon excited, I’ve been moving in slow motion. And honestly? That’s funny to me, given the gravity of the move I just made.

It got me thinking: Why do people often feel a different emotion than expected when they finally achieve a goal?

The Shift After the Pursuit 🎯

Here’s what I believe: once a goal is achieved—any goal—the shift happens. The energy of pursuing transforms into something else entirely.

I’d compare this to a crush. Think about it.

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February 19, 2026February 18, 2026

Are You in the Dark?

Shadow work has become almost a household name—and for good reason. It’s something that is absolutely needed if you want to 10x your life. You know the old saying: your past determines your future. Some may not agree with this statement, but it’s true.

In order for you to 10x your life, you need a clear vision. And what will help you gain clarity better than shadow work? Over two decades ago, I was first acquainted with this concept. I had some knowledge of the subconscious, but I had no idea what lies beneath—not until I started doing the inner work was I confronted with my shadow.

Then and only then did I start to see significant changes in my life.

See, a lot of the time we believe that we’re over the things that had an impact on our life. This isn’t to make you feel bad—this is to shed some light on why you are probably feeling stuck or why you’re not able to get to the next level in your life.

Yeah, you’ve probably created a life you’re proud of, especially if you’re transitioning into a new season in your life. This is when you’ll start to notice unresolved issues resurfacing.

The Tool That Changed Everything for Me

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February 9, 2026February 2, 2026

Write Your Joy: Journaling Prompts for Embracing Life’s Fleeting Beauty

As we get older, life can feel as if it’s passing us by—not to mention our beauty. But what if I told you that the way we perceive aging can completely transform our experience of it?

One of the things that has helped me see things from a different perspective and maintain a positive outlook is self-care. There is something to be said about sitting in front of the mirror and doing my skincare, applying makeup, giving myself a facial, or simply saying my affirmations. These practices have allowed me to embrace the aging process with grace and gratitude.

The Power of Morning Gratitude

Another thing that has profoundly helped me is making sure to give gratitude first thing in the morning. In fact, it’s usually my opening statement when I write in my journal.

Studies show that when you start the day with gratitude, the rest of the day flows better. Giving gratitude puts you in a frame of mind that allows you to see and receive life’s challenges from a new perspective.

Doing this not only gives you peace of mind, but it also allows you to harness positive energy—leading to a transformative daily lifestyle that encompasses personal growth and helps you unlock your spiritual path.

I believe God hears our hearts and loves when we show appreciation for the life He gives us—something that you start to appreciate more and more as you age.

Forever Young: The Light Within

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February 6, 2026February 2, 2026

Being Kind Won’t Cost You a Thing

Many people tend to think that kindness comes from receiving equal parts of good on both sides, only to be let down when they find out the kindness they’ve given was one-sided. This usually provokes them to say to themselves, “Well, I’m going to act like the person and rescind their kindness.” Unfortunately, many people feel this way, leaving people disheartened, discouraged, and lonely.

I remember a time when I had to go to the post office to mail off a package to a loved one. I’d never sent off a package that size before; I was a bit confused about where to place the label. When I brought it back to the window, not only did the postal lady speak to me in an unhealthy tone, she wouldn’t listen to any of the questions I was asking beforehand that might have helped me from making the error in the first place. Continue reading “Being Kind Won’t Cost You a Thing”

January 31, 2026January 30, 2026

Simone Says Yes! Choosing Yourself in a World That Says Otherwise

Have you ever thought to yourself why so many people are eager to follow what everyone else is doing? As human beings, we are naturally drawn to coupling up—after all, the old saying goes “we’re stronger in numbers.” But what about being solo? Is there harm in being single?

The New Era of Self-Priority

In today’s society, many women are choosing to build their careers rather than starting a family. Dating has become a cesspool of survival, especially for women who have already taken that route. Women today are choosing themselves rather than being attracted to someone else simply for the sake of not being alone.

In an age where everything one could ever want is at your fingertips, women are choosing their careers and building their own ecosystems. Gone are the days where one has to solve problems alone—with technology, the answers are at your fingertips. Continue reading “Simone Says Yes! Choosing Yourself in a World That Says Otherwise”

January 30, 2026January 30, 2026

Act: Choosing Kindness Over Reaction

The Last Act: Choosing Kindness Over Reaction

What would you do if someone told you “No”? Would you react defensively, or would you move forward and exercise your faith? Most people would rather push their way through when it comes to the things they want or believe they should have, and in some cases this may be a good alternative—but not so much when dealing with people. As the old saying goes, “there’s more than one way to skin a cat” (although I must say I’m not too proud of that statement, being a cat lover myself). The point I’m making is that kindness will get you much further than rudeness.

One day I was short on cash and had to be somewhere quickly, so I went to the store where I knew an ATM was provided for customers. I have to admit I don’t regularly go to an ATM—I prefer to go to the bank, not only because it’s safer but also because you don’t get hit with ATM fees. As I was fumbling with the machine, a woman behind me spoke in a, well, not-so-kind voice, asking me if I was using the machine. Clearly I was using it—everyone in the store looked up as her voice projected throughout the space.

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January 28, 2026January 30, 2026

Everything You Need Is Already Within You

What if I told you that everything you’ve ever wanted is already inside of you?

Many people operate under the false notion that they need to study for years on end to be successful. Don’t get me wrong—education is definitely a powerful tool to have. I believe in higher education. But what I’m discussing here is something much deeper: an inner knowing of what you can become, if only given the chance.

From the time you were born, you were programmed to become who you are right now. Think about it: your parents told you what to eat, how to speak. Then you went to school and they told you how to think. You really never had a choice or the time to find out who you truly are.

In a world that is always evolving, it’s pretty safe to say we as a society are confused.

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January 23, 2026January 25, 2026

Fine-Tune Your Way of Thinking 💭

Hey, we are all oppressed—say the thoughts that come to the brain of a healthy thinker. Millions of people are proving to themselves that they are right to let go of the thought of becoming something grand or better, in whatever version they believe they once were able to achieve. This is one of the reasons why I believe people are sometimes threatened by others when they see someone close to them achieving their dreams. No one wants to look through a glass mirror only to see a reflection they’re not familiar with.

Last year I took up ballet 🩰. Of course, I already had in my mind that I was a prima ballerina—I bought the tights, leotards, cute little skirts. I even bought a ballet bar so I could practice. I realized pretty early in the game that I was going to have to get in shape in order to have my toes do any type of pointing. I watched countless ballet training videos, only to realize my dream of becoming a prima ballerina at the age of 52 may be only realized in my head.

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